For ages, I have this weird + traditional believe that I would ONLY give a BJ to my 'husband' not 'boyfriend'. I just don't wanna randomly suck every single cock I've been dating you know. Anyway, this has never become an issue between me and SN until tonight, when he mentioned "It's nice to give and take once in while you know." Oh oooo.... I felt like I shouldn't have brought this up. I mean we talked about this and I thought he perfectly understands and respects that (strange) idea of mine. Then he went, "It's ok. I don't mind. I'll just eat you every now and then. I know you really like it."
Y'all feel the same way as me?? It's like SN tries to make it fair - which is obviously not fair as he knows how much I love oral sex - it's like if I give him BJ now and then, he'll give me oral every now and then.
Suddenly the dark side of me said "I knew it! I knew it!" Guys just can't licking girls without expecting to be licked in return !!!
Maybe I'm not Western enough. Every typical Western girls would not mind giving BJ to their boyfriends. Right ?? But it's not my problem, my international environment that I've been living in, doesn't set any rules indicating BJ and sex are the same thing that you must participate with your partners.
And now... just because I wouldn't give him BJ (until we get married), I won't be receiving any BJ - as often as it always was - from him.
Or, maybe the same rules applied here.... like kissing for instance... if a guy kisses you but you don't kiss a guy back, then eventually he'll stop kissing you.
P.S. FYI people.... I did it once and it lasted only 12 sec... sucking that thing... his thing was big and long (longer than my ex anyway), I felt like it couldn't fit my mouth !! I was almost choked.
Very interesting...I wonder if it is a cultural perference, or a personal one? for some reason I absolutely LOVE giving a good blow job. I almost like that more than the actual sex part! Ok, maybe that's an exaggeration, but I love having a man's penis in my mouth. (usually)...
ReplyDeleteFor some reason I don't get a lot of oral in return. Maybe it's because I'm not one of those completely "hairless" woman..It's not like it's out of control though..
I love oral :) Maybe we just all have our "preferences"...
Cultural preference. Exactly !!! Why didn't I think of that.
ReplyDeleteIs it a cultural preference indeed ???
Maybe? Not sure really :)
ReplyDeleteThis too is a guilty pleasure of mine! In-fact like mylovelifesucks mentioned, I often enjoy giving a BJ better than the actual act of sex! I did see on a show for men (can't recall name), it actually said women from Sweden loved giving BJ's the best and American girls we're least to come forward in providing a good BJ. Don't know how true that is but for me born/raised in California, I'm all about BJ's and all it's different flavors LOL!
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